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Parents take a breath of relief after raising children successfully by changing their nappies and playing with them along with the toddlers. But this isn’t the end; you need to put more effort when your child becomes an adult. They, too, need proper guidance to follow the right pathway. So here are ten tips to Know your children better with adult parenting that will help you to balance out.

1. Respect their uniqueness

Don’t always compare them with others and expect the same from your child. Every child has different capabilities and desires. Try to understand the uniqueness of your child.

2. Be up to date with their world

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Try to be aware and keep track of what all is going in your child’s life. Make sure you are aware of their college schedule, timings, and their friends. In this way, you can stay connected to your child.

3. Let them face the struggle

The struggle will make your child healthy and would be able to stand confidently on their feet. Don’t pressurize them; just give the assurance that you are always with them in their hard times.

4. Let your child share excellent & bad stuff

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Be friendly to them so that they can share all the good and bad things with you without any hesitation. Don’t lose your temper on listening to the wrong side; otherwise; they won’t share from the next time. Instead, be calm and make them understand their wrong politely.

5. Don’t enter into their private space

Give your children their private space. Don’t just try to interfere in all the things which they might not be comfortable in sharing with you. Children’s hesitate to share their love life, and if forced, they start keeping things secret. Understand that now they have grown up, and it’s ok if they don’t want to share such thoughts.

6. Give them their freedom to choice

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It may be there career or decision of whom to get married; you need to trust them. Don’t force them to do things as per your liking. It’s their life, and they have the freedom to do so.

7. Help your child to get out of bad habits

Start from educating them and making them unaware of the side effects caused. Don’t outburst on them in public; instead, talk with them in private. Be patient to them. Have faith in them.

8. Know the cause why Children smoke or drink

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This may happen because your child is facing stress, or they may do so to act cool. So it’s essential to get to the roots of the problem. Being firm is necessary, but let them know that violating the rules would not result in functional consequences.

9. How to help children who smoke and drink

Encourage your kids to get involved in other activities which will divert their mind from smoking, such as sports. Encourage them to move separately from the friends who are guiding your children towards the wrong path. Get them to the doctor and put it in their minds that smoking will make their look and breathe badly.

10. Accept the changes

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Many parents start feeling annoyed if their child doesn’t call or text their parents all the time and inform everything. You need to accept that your child is grown up and has a separate busy life due to which they can’t give the same response and time as earlier.

Start following these to develop a healthier relationship amongst you and your children.

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HT Rewind 2024: Teja Sajja says HanuMan kicking off the year in style is the moment he’d been ‘waiting for’ | Exclusive

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HT Rewind 2024: Teja Sajja says HanuMan kicking off the year in style is the moment he’d been ‘waiting for’ | Exclusive

In conversation with Hindustan Times, Teja Sajja decodes the success of HanuMan and other Telugu films, talks about his upcoming projects, and more.
When Prasanth Varma’s superhero film HanuMan, starring Teja Sajja, was announced to be released alongside big films like Mahesh Babu’s Guntur Kaaram, Venkatesh’s Saindhav and Nagarjuna’s Naa Saami Ranga in January this year, no one expected the underdog to emerge on top. And yet, the film, made on a budget of under ₹50 crore, managed to collect over ₹300 crore at the box office worldwide in 25 days, becoming one of the highest-grossing Indian films for the year. (Also Read: Ranveer Singh met HanuMan actor Teja Sajja, complimented him even after his Prasanth Varma film Rakshas got shelved)

Ask Teja about the moment he realised his film had not just fought against the tide but also risen to the top; he tells Hindustan Times in an exclusive conversation, “Since I returned to acting (as a lead actor after being a child artiste since 1998), this is the moment I’ve been waiting for. When everything from the HanuMan teaser to the songs was grabbing attention, we knew we had hit a gold mine. But I don’t think we imagined it would cross the ₹300 crore threshold. We were so satisfied with the opening numbers; everything else was a bonus.”

‘Success has given me fear of disappointing people’

Teja acted in Zombie Reddy, Ishq and Adbhutham before HanuMan, but they are what you would call ‘critical successes’, adding to his repertoire as an actor who can perform. But things have changed for him now, says Teja, who is being picky about the roles he says yes to. “Success either makes you overconfident or gives you the fear of disappointing people; I have the latter,” he explains.

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Teja admits he wants to chart out his career in Hrithik Roshan’s footsteps, but not in the way you think. “I have such a fondness for Hrithik due to Koi Mil Gaya and Krrish. No matter how well he performed after that, these left a lasting impression on me; I’m sure 90s kids will agree,” he says, adding, “Similarly, I’ve realised that I have an audience in children now. I want to be conscious of that when I pick roles. I want to make films families can enjoy together.”

But despite people in places like Mumbai or Delhi recognising him, Teja says he’s clear that he wants to cater to the Telugu audience first. “I am conscious that I am making films for my playground – the Telugu states. This is the sensibility I have grown up with, and I don’t know if I can cater to everyone else. Will I promote my films in other languages? Sure. But I also can’t be part of films that aren’t authentic to what I know or understand,” he explains.

‘Rootedness has put us on the world map’

And authenticity seems to be the need of the hour. Be it Baahubali and RRR or the recently released Pushpa 2: The Rule, Kalki 2898 AD and Devara: Part 1, certain kind of stories seem to be finding success. “Rootedness and going local is proving to be such a boon for us, be it in Devara or Pushpa or HanuMan. Kalki 2898 AD was our version of a Hollywood film (the sci-fi concept) with actors from across languages in predominant roles; it put us on the world map,” reflects Teja.

However, the actor admits Tollywood went through a phase of Bollywood-inspired rom-coms and family dramas that worked in their favour for a while. “That wasn’t easy to replicate either, but it’s just that these local stories are what the audience seems most interested in now. It can’t just be chalked up to religion, too. It’s about the morals these films are hinged on, the fighting for righteousness, and how an underdog can find their strength. Introducing Mahabharata or Ramayana to a new audience in a cool way is just a perk,” he says.

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And it’s this rootedness that Teja says his next films, Mirai and Jai Hanuman (the sequel to HanuMan), will also have ample of. “Mirai is also a superhero film that caters to kids, but it’s not an origin story like HanuMan. It has a pan-Asian and Buddhist touch because the story is based on King Ashoka’s ideologies. I hope that I will get to deliver something new to the audience again. I will only feel like I’ve arrived if Mirai is equally, if not more, successful,” says Teja.

Rishab Shetty will headline Jai Hanuman, but Teja also looks forward to shooting that. “I can’t wait to be on that set; it’ll be exciting. Now that we know India is ready to watch our films, I want to step it up. I want to shift gears and shoot for at least two films in 2025,” he says. As for what he will do next, Teja says he wants to up the ante. “When I got a SIIMA award for Zombie Reddy as a debutant, I remember telling Prasanth this would be the last award I get. But now that I won a Radio City Cine Award for Best Actor, I hope more awards will follow,” he signs off cheekily.

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