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Neha Dhupia: I have fallen in love with the same person again and again, but did okay

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In Jyoti Kapur Das’ film Good Morning for Amazon Mini TV, Neha Dhupia portrays a working mother. A single day in the life of Anagha, who has difficulties at work and at home concerning her children, is the focus of the movie, which is true to its title. Prior to the film’s release, Hindustan Times recently had a brief conversation with the actor.

The movie raises questions about the fine line between parenting and micromanaging children. Neha, who frequently discusses balancing her acting career with mothering her two children, Mehr and Guriq, believes that “a line needs to be drawn.” Expectations should be limited to the fact that you are unable to bear children because you want them to experience life as you have imagined it. They are expected to be able to live out their own dreams.

Giving your children a strong value system is crucial when you are raising them, and we are attempting to do that with Mehr. With, of course, one or two chocolate-related tantrums per week, but that’s okay (laugh)

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Then we had Guriq, our son. I hope he picks up the same lessons. Because he is a male, I might have to impart a new set of morals and a much grander message than using your brains and being all heart. You’ll be sure to impart a high level of that knowledge to your kids as a woman and mother who has experienced life with so many different people, seen its highs and lows, and been able to identify what is good and terrible. What we want to do is that.

“Academically, it is our responsibility to send them to the best school we can. And it’s up to them to take advantage of it fully. We only have the desire to raise moral children as our only objective. I believe it should be that way. without any kind of pressure. It is irrelevant how you were brought up, from what generation you are, or how well you scored on the SAT.

Neha stated that she dislikes offering parents unwanted advise because everyone tries their best. She did, however, cope with a considerable amount of counsel. “I believe that the best benefit of having a second child is that no one offers advise. They are hesitant. Since they have realised by that point that “isko pata hain ye kya kar rahi hain”

Mothers who experience mom guilt are the one group Neha would advise: “That is probably the only time I reach out and say, “Okay you have to go and do this for yourself.” I just caught the morning flight to Jaipur, albeit I’m being a big gyaani here, and I’m simply scrolling through the videos (of Mehr and Guriq).

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“You’ve got to have your blinders on. It’s great when you’re working away from your kids, but the moment you get off—whether it’s from work, boarding a plane, or heading to the gym—your heart blows your brain out, and your body releases some strange chemicals. That, in my opinion, is when the real moms are guilty, ” she said. She described the typical emotions mothers experience as making your heart want to drop to your knees.

She clarified the record when asked where she stood on toxic parenting, saying, “If I think about what toxic parenting stands for, I don’t stand by it. Because it doesn’t happen frequently, I don’t notice it around me. If it’s happening, it’s not close to me because if I saw something that I didn’t agree with as a parent, even for my child, I would reach out. I’ll extend my hand in the kindest manner I know how.

When asked about giving second chances in relationships, Neha answered it all depends on how much “toxic-ness” she can handle. When I look at you, why would I give you another chance? “Boohooing, DM-ing someone else, redefining infidelity goals, like look at me. She promptly shared these previous experiences with him and said, “Yeah, it happened when I was younger. The wonderful thing about being young is that sometimes you naively fall in love with someone extremely quickly or the same person repeatedly. I have experienced both, and I believe I performed satisfactorily. At age 38, I met Angad (Bedi). I had my child at age 38 and got married.

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With new objectives and a new firearm, shooter Rudrankksh starts over.

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After missing out on the Olympics, the youngster has shed over 10kgs and added the 50m 3P event to his schedule
New Delhi: Rudrankksh Patil is known for his nerdy, obsessive pursuit of shooting. He loves to read and research, and in a discipline where millimetres decide the podium, is not shy of tinkering with his equipment. His idea of de-stressing from shooting is to shoot more, and so when he missed the berth for the Paris Olympics, the youngster shook off the disappointment and returned to the range within days.

“I love the sport too much to stay away from it for too long. Not shooting for three days was more than enough for me. I didn’t go into mourning or anything. The people around me were more heartbroken than me. In fact, I was the one counselling my psychologist,” the 21-year-old laughed at the tragicomedy.

“I kept the quota for two years before fumbling in the trials. It’s okay. The disappointment has made me more determined.”

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It has also made him smarter. In the months since Sandeep Singh and Arjun Babuta pipped him in the domestic Olympic trials for the 10m air rifle event, the 21-year-old changed his equipment, shed weight, gained muscle, reset his perspective, and developed an admiration for French swimming sensation Leon Marchand. He is now trying his hand in the tough 50m 3Positions event.

At the recent national championships, Patil made his competitive debut in the new event but couldn’t make the senior final. He finished fourth in his pet 10m event, and in the junior final that followed, breached the world record score of China’s Olympic champion Sheng Lihao with an incredible 254.9 (24 shots). It won’t be ratified as a world record due to the world body’s (ISSF) stipulations, but it does reaffirm Patil’s belief in his ability.

“To hit form early in the season is very encouraging. I am also very keen to get better at 50m as it gives me a better chance to make the Indian team for multi-discipline events,” he said. Patil wanted to try the gruelling event two years back. However, he was dissuaded by his coach Ajit Patil who thought taking up a new event two years before the Olympics wasn’t a great idea. With the new Games cycle having just begun, time was ripe to try something new. A nudge from Paris 50m 3P bronze medallist Swapnil Kusale helped.

“I have always looked upto Swapnil as we come from the same state (Maharashtra). He encouraged me to try 50m. I also noticed that a lot of top rifle shooters compete in both events. Even in India, Aishwary Pratap Singh Tomar manages the two events very well. In pistol, Rhythm Sangwan and Manu Bhaker have shown that one can compete in two events,” he said.

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While Patil’s robust frame did help with stability across the three positions (standing, kneeling and prone), his 96kg bodyweight began to put extra pressure on his knees. So, the youngster fixed his nutrition and sleep patterns and hit the gym. The result is shedding 13kg in three months.

Another major change post-Olympics is his rifle. Patil, who shot with Austrian Steyr, has switched from Walther to Feinwerkbau, though he still swears by the Walther’s accuracy. “I think there’s not much difference in the barrel between Walther and Feinwerkbau since both are of German make, but I feel the stock of Feinwerkbau has better weight balance and fits my body best.”

The Paris miss has also taught Patil the importance of letting go, although he learnt it at the cost of his health. Two months before the four-stage selection trials, Patil observed a tiny dark patch on his ankle. He initially dismissed it, but it began to spread. It was later diagnosed as an auto immune disease that’s triggered by stress.

“I don’t recall the name of the condition, but the physical toll of stress is real. We do have psychologists to help us with the mental turmoil, but a lot of shooters lose hair or develop digestive issues because of competition stress. In my case, I got this disease,” he said.

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Patil competed in the trials with the marks and itching spreading all over his body, which affected his alignment at the firing point. “It really shook my focus and I decided to address it after the trials. Thankfully, it’s almost gone now but the fear of contracting something like this again is still there,” he said.

With the new year knocking, Patil has his resolutions in place. Chief among them is to match his training scores in competitions, win back his world No.1 rank and start peaking for the 2026 Asian Games. The only way to realise those goals is to shoot more, which is hardly an issue with Patil.

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